However, there have been bright spots, I have been extremely lucky to receive packages and love from my family. These have brought me excitement as I wait in line at the customs office on Tuesday mornings and joy as I open the box with the agent to explore what is inside.
Yet as Christmas gets near I have been feeling more and more dread for a day without family and friends. My counterpart, Violeta, called me out of the blue to say that she and my tutor, Doina, wanted to come caroling to my apartment. People traditionally carol here the week prior to Christmas and when your home is visited you are supposed to serve the carolers drinks and food (or give them money). I made a batch of peanut butter cookies intrigued, wondering what they were going to sing.
When Vio, Doina and Marga, another teacher from school, showed up they informed me they would not be singing, but they had a surprise. They told me to stay in the kitchen while they were busy in the main room in my studio. When they finally told me I could look I was amazed. They brought me Christmas in the form of an amazing little tree with blue twinkly lights, ornaments, garlands and bows. They also made sure I had some mistletoe hanging in my apartment. It was the most wonderful Christmas surprise!