Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Friday, December 2, 2011

A story for Ingrid and Ben

When you agree to sign-up for the Peace Corps you agree to prepare both your personal and professional life for 27 months of service abroad and to live under conditions of hardship.  For me, the conditions have not been difficult, aside from the occasional days with water and power, I really have been blessed.  My hardship comes in a more personal manner.  The hardship comes from missing friends and family and many feelings of uncertainty.  

One of the big missing pieces in my current life is the inability to have a real relationship with my niece and nephew.  I have yet to actually even meet my nephew, Benjamin, he was born just a couple months into my service.  We have a relationship via Skype, but we are just blobs trying to converse with one another.  Half the time when Ben, who is now almost 17 months old, gets near the screen he ends up disconnecting us by pounding on the keyboard.  I think he is saying, "This relationship is not sufficient; get out of that computer and come play with me!"  Quite frankly, I totally agree!  Therefore, in attempt to me more than just a blob I thought I would try reading one of my favorite stories by Arnold Lobel from Frog and Toad Together.


Monday, November 21, 2011

There and Back Again

For the past couple weeks I was back in the States reconnecting with my family, attending my cousin's wedding, seeing friends and generally enjoying the bounties of life states.  This will be my only trip back during my 27 month service and going back for a wedding was perfect because it meant getting to see more family than I would have been able to otherwise.

My first stop in the states was in New Hampshire.  I arrived 4 days before the wedding so that I could spend a little time with my family, the beautiful bride: Corona, and try to adjust to the correct time zone.  I also was lucky enough to get to do a presentation about my Peace Corps experience to an education class at Keene State College.  The students asked wonderful questions and it helped me think about my service in a new way.

As for the wedding, I don't think I can even do it justice by writing about it. It was just too prefect!  It was so lovely to get to see my dear cousin get married to an amazing guy and to see two families come together as one.
Celebrating with the bride
Following the wedding I then flew back to Seattle with my parents.  The time in Seattle flew by, but I was able to reconnect with quite a few friends and to meet some new members of my friends' families.  I got to meet Cecelia, daughter of Eliza and Daniel, who was born just a couple months after I left for Romania who is now an amazing 16 months old!  I also got to meet Milo, son of Andrew and Megan, who is 6 weeks old and Adelaide, daughter of Robin and Andy, who is just one month old.  I also got to have lunch with my 98 year old grandma twice!  I saw both Emily and Dieter's new house and Margaret and Kevin's new house; both are darling and I can't wait to have more time to hang out in them.  My parents also spoiled me rotten through out my time in the states giving in to meals of foods I had been craving for the past year and a half, taking me to Costco to stock up on supplies to bring back, by cooking Thanksgiving dinner early and providing birthday cake for dessert.
Turkey!
I also got to do short presentation about Romania in my friend Ona's kindergarten classroom.  The kindergarteners asked some impressive and hilarious questions.  When I showed them on the globe the distance from Seattle to Romania, one little boy asked, "Do you fly over the Atlantic Ocean to get there?"  Brilliant!  As I was holding the globe another boy asked, "How does the Earth float upright in space?"  Uh...  I told him that was an excellent question, but perhaps one that should be asked to a scientist.  Three hands then shot up and then we had, "My dad's a scientist."  "My grandpa's a scientist."  Oh how I love kindergarteners!

A presentation at St. Joseph School
Now I am back in Romania and getting ready for my first day back in the classroom.  I am afraid it may be a challenging week, but I feel ready to face the next month before winter vacation.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Here and There


Tomorrow morning I will be heading down to Bucharest to check with the doctors again about my eye. I am still seeing the spot I previously wrote about.  It's a bizarre problem, and I'm finding it troubling that in the past three months it hasn't gone away.  However, the spot hasn't gotten any bigger which is a blessing.

After my doctors appointments I will be bound for the United States.  My dear cousin Corona is getting married and I am taking leave to go to the wedding. 


 
It's been about a year and a half since I have been in the U.S. and more importantly, seen most of my family and friends.  I am very excited to see everyone, but quite frankly, I am bit nervous about it too.  I don't quite feel that I am able to articulate all of my nerves, but I feel like so much has happened since I have been away that I am not quite sure I'll be able to take it all in.  However, I shall try.

Friday, July 29, 2011

Germany

Last week I took a whirlwind trip to Germany to meet up with my cousin Emily, her husband Hans, and their son Karl while they were visiting Hans' parents, Harold and Jutta. This was my first trip to Germany and it was wonderful.  Spending time with family has become even more dear as I am so far from home and it was so lovely just to be in a normal home setting.  Just doing things like sitting down for breakfast or lunch as a family are a complete delight. It was so fun too to watch Karl, at age 4, move back and forth from German to English at rapid speed.

I ate some delicious food, drank some great beer and wine, got lots of quality family time and even found some new clothes. It was a great 4 1/2 days.  We certainly packed it in! Here are some snaps from my trip:

Heidelberg
 
Bad Wimpfen
 
 Bad Wimpfen
 
 Bad Wimpfen
 The old city walls of Bad Wimpfen
 
 Maultashen, dumplings filled with spinach and meat, one of my new favorite foods!

 The Danube Valley

Lovely dinner with some of Hans' college friends

 family!

 Stuttgart

 The old palace in Stuttgart

One last family photo before I hit the road

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Service and Stuff

Ones of the interesting things about being a TEFL volunteer is that the summer gives me the unique freedom to do other things.  My school has no program or projects for me to participate in between now and September so this gives me the freedom to do other things.  I say this with a mix of joy and frustration.  There may be things happening at my school, but my inability to get fully involved in my school community leaves me not knowing.  However, I am lucky to have found some other projects.

Each week during the school year I teach an adult English class with a local NGO.  This NGO provides an amazing range of services to the local community including pre-natal care, post-natal counseling, parenting classes, food assistance and much more.  My friends at the NGO, Angela and Saskia (a Dutch volunteer), wondered I might like to do something in a village outside of my town this summer.  I jumped at the chance and with their help partnered with the village school (1st to 8th grade) to create a weekly activity for the students with games, sports and a tiny bit of English. 

Today was my first day camp and I had 34 kids show up!  We had the activities in the yard at the school. The children ranged in age from 6-13 (I think), it was a little hard to get a good sense with so many.  We did some warm-ups, sang "head, shoulders, knees and toes," learned weather terminology and played a game, played chain tag, and "red light, green light."  We took a break after tag because we were all getting very hot.  I suggested water, thinking there would be a drinking fountain they could use, but then I realized that I realized two things.  First, I have never seen a drinking fountain in any Romanian school I've visited (I think I have been in about 15 in various cities here) and second, in the village there is no running water.  Thus our water break involved sending some kids down the road with a bucket to get water, then using the community cups the school has so that everyone could get a little water.  After the break we played a little more and then I quizzed everyone about weather terms.  I am already plotting my next visit and trying the brainstorm games to play with lots of kids in a small yard.

In general, it's hard in the middle of PC service to really take stock of what I am doing.  This past school year has been a lot of things, many of them challenging.  I have tried not to write too much about it in my blog because staff urges us when having challenging days to write in journals or e-mails rather than write publicly.  I have been very lucky to have amazing support from friends and family back home, but have continually struggled to find purpose in my service and the ability to touch the lives of my students.  Today, however, I felt a little closer to finding purpose as I was actually doing something that wouldn't have taken place if I wasn't there.  In school it's difficult because even if I wasn't in school my students would still be having a English.  I try to make my English classes fun, but I've admittedly missed the mark for what Romanian teenagers consider fun.  Thus it was nice to do something new with a younger age group with no particular goal except running around and having fun.

In other news, the Peace Corps announced their intention to leave Romania last week.  The group that is swearing-in and beginning their service this week will be the last in Romania.  This is the 20th year of Peace Corps in Romania and it is now down to just the TEFL sector.  You can read more about the news in the link above.

Lastly, I want to wish a very happy birthday to my brother, Matt.  I am afraid my card might not make it in time, but here is a preview.  I hope it makes it to you eventually.  HAPPY BIRTHDAY BROTHER, I LOVE YOU!

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Cousin Magic

In the middle of June my dear cousin Simone came to visit for a week.  Simone just graduated from the University of Chicago with a Masters in Public Policy (total smarty pants) and is doing a post-graduation European tour.  I was honored to be her first stop before she met up with her boyfriend in Germany. I was done teaching so she came to my town to see the end of the school year award show and then we traveled over to Transylvania. 
Simone at the Nadia Comaneci statue in Onesti

We started our travels in Transylvania with a day trip to Miercurea Ciuc which is a three hour train ride from my town on the other side of the mountains.  We were blessed with great weather and visited a museum to see an exhibit on loan from Hungary with Hungarian mummies.  The museum also had a lot of traditional Romanian costumes, tools, and crafts.
 
 Csiki Szekely Museum at Miko Castle in Miercurea Ciuc

Over the next few days we visited Sighisoara and Sibiu.  I had never been to Sighisoara before so it was fun to explore the city for the first time with Simone.  We visited the museum in the clock tower and explored the old town.  The next day we hoped on the train to Sibiu and then had two days to see Sibiu.
 
 Clock Tower in Sighisoara

 View from the train between Sighisoara and Sibiu

 Day 5 - Liar's Bridge in Sibiu

We also visited the ASTRA Museum in Sibiu.  It was by far, the best museum that I have visited in Romania.  It was filled with traditional buildings moved from different locales across the Romania that are now set in a beautiful forest.
 
 ASTRA Open Air Museum in Sibiu

We had a great time traveling around, but the time flew by way too quickly.  I can't wait for our next cousin reunion! 

Monday, May 9, 2011

Life in Slow Motion

Over the past couple weeks I have been trying to be a bit domestic.  I have been making granola and planting things.  This week I can happily report that my granola recipe is getting tastier (read less burnt) and that the plants in my kitchen window are sprouting.  I am hoping to have basil, cherry tomatoes, and cilantro by summer.  I am still using my flannel sheets and wearing my down coat some days, but I think summer is around the corner.

As I approach a year in Romania, I want to take a moment to reflect on things happening outside of Romania.  To me, one of the most challenging aspects of being in Romania has been missing events in the lives of family and friends.  My greatest joy in life comes from spending time and sharing experiences with family friends.  Beyond the standard holidays and birthdays, I have missed some momentous occasions too.  Two important new people came into the world; Benjamin, my nephew, and Cecelia, the daughter of my close friends Eliza and Daniel. While I have yet to meet them in person, I do cherish Skype dates with them.

I have also missed celebrating new engagements, but I am very excited for Corona & Josh and Margaret & Kevin.  My awesome sister-in-law, Astrid, got her Ph.D. Go, Dr. L! There are also new babies on the way who births I will miss this summer, but I can't wait to meet the new littles ones from Megan & Andrew, Robin & Andy, and Mariclair & Bill when I am back in Seattle.  Also, my brilliant cousins are graduating this month; Emily is getting her Ph.D. in Management and Simone is getting her Master's in Public Policy. Anyway I am cheering for all of you from Romania!